In a new national survey, roughly one in five women say they have never masturbated in their lifetime. Never ever. WTF? Masturbation is not only the safest kind of sex, but it also promises health benefits from better sleep to less painful menstrual cramps—and it can empower women to better understand their sexuality. So, why aren’t more women lending themselves a hand? We should all be more like this woman from Toronto who just really loves herself enough… to orgasm in public.